We’ve all heard the story: someone seeks medical attention for something seemingly insignificant, and it ends up being life-altering. Well, over on Quora, people were discussing instances where they sought medical help just to be safe, and survived only because they decided to go to the doctor. Here are their stories.
1.“A few years ago, I got a small cut on my knuckle. No big deal, right? It was just a small little nick; it didn’t bleed much. A few days go by, and my middle finger swells up. I can hardly bend it. I’m thinking, ‘Ok, it’s infected… I’m sure it will clear up in a few more days.’ Around four days after that, the cut turns into a small crater, with the edges raised with a black-looking scab inside…I tell myself it’ll get worse before it gets better and leave it alone for another day or two, and if the swelling doesn’t go down, I’ll get it checked out. After all, I don’t have a fever, so it can’t be that bad, right?…”
2.“I had a cardiologist tell me repeatedly that I was having panic attacks. He said I didn’t have angina. He sent me for a stress test, which I could not do because of ‘imaginary’ chest pain. I insisted on an angiogram. He mocked me and scoffed. I was desperate at this point and kept insisting. He angrily ordered one and told me it was a waste of time and that what I needed was a psychiatrist. I showed up for my 7 a.m. Friday appointment…”
“…I don’t know what he had written or told them, but I sat there all day. Finally, at about 5 p.m., I went in. (I have no memory of anything after flicking a cigarette away at 7 when I arrived.) I woke up Monday in terrible pain. I had no idea what had happened. My wife told me that after just a few minutes, the doctor had come out and said they could not complete the angiogram because of severely clogged arteries (including the one that causes the ‘widowmaker.’ They put me in the cardiac ICU and kept me heavily sedated until Monday when they could operate. I had a triple bypass. The cardiologist told me I was fortunate to be alive. Oh, and that cigarette I flicked away was my last one. I can take a hint.”
—Tom A.
3.“There were literally no symptoms other than exhaustion. I got home from work and went to start dinner. I became aware of being absolutely completely exhausted. I wanted to lie down and sleep on the kitchen floor. I got myself to bed, then called my dad to cancel our plans for the next day…”
4.“A couple weeks before Christmas, I was sleeping in when my husband came into the bedroom and told me he was having chest pains and had had them the evening prior. Needless to say, I was up, dressed, and on the way to the ER in about five minutes flat. Unfortunately, due to COVID, I was not allowed to go in with him and had to wait several hours at home with periodic updates from him…”
“After a few tests, they determined he had had a mild heart attack. They also discovered he had four blocked arteries, including the left main, a couple of which were about 99% blocked. The next thing we both knew, he was in the surgical intensive care unit and was scheduled for emergency bypass surgery the following morning.
The surgeon did a triple bypass, and my husband was in the hospital for ten days, coming home on Christmas morning. He’s 59 and had no symptoms. While he doesn’t go for an annual physical, the surgeon told us that at his age, with absolutely no symptoms, our family doctor would not have had any reason to go looking, even if he had seen her for a yearly visit. I never would have thought a mild heart attack could be a good thing, but had he not had it, things could have had a very different outcome.”
—Dianne M.
5.“One morning about a year and a half ago, I woke up with a mild pain in my eye. I figured I’d probably rubbed my eye in my sleep and maybe scratched the cornea. No big deal. It would heal in a day or two. But it would be a problem on the drive to work, so I called in sick…”
6.“A workmate of my brother’s dropped dead. Heart attack. No warning signs. So my sister-in-law, a brilliant woman, told my brother to go to a cardiologist and get tested…”
“…My brother is very active, fit, and healthy and has no problems or warning signs that would suggest heart problems. But she told him to go, so he went. They said they would send the results to his doctor in a week. They called him the next day. The day after that, he was in hospital getting a stent put in a blood vessel that was 95% blocked. He had no clue that he had any problems at all. He could have gone at any time.”
—Becca C.
7.“When I was a teen, I suffered from something I called a ‘back attack.’ I would get excruciating pain in my lower back. It was so bad that I couldn’t eat, sleep, or walk. My parents took me to the doctor, where, after a few months, they noticed that I had fused vertebrae. He wrote a note that allowed me to ‘go until it hurts, then stop’ for all physical classes. Whenever I would get an attack, my parents would take me to urgent care…”
8.“Two years ago, I decided to lose some weight over the summer by eating right, not snacking after dinner, and walking daily. I was so proud that I had met my target weight by the start of the new school year and was down one waist size. So I was a bit surprised when I was having trouble climbing the steps to our school’s third floor. I should mention that I was a wrestling coach. Climbing stairs never made me tired!..”
9.“When I was 28 weeks pregnant with my last baby, I went to the hospital for what I thought was terrible indigestion. I had been uncomfortable for a couple of days. I couldn’t eat or sleep and was getting dehydrated. I made my husband go out in the middle of the night to get Zantac and Tums to try to help. I had him take me to the hospital when it was unbearable to take a deep breath, and the medications weren’t helping to ease my symptoms…”
“….I had been on bed rest the entire pregnancy because of pre-eclampsia. I had two little boys at home to take care of and not a lot of family support. When we got to the hospital, my OB was called. He told me it was time to transfer my care to a bigger hospital. He calmly told me I had to be transferred via ambulance but didn’t want me to stress out about it. I wanted my husband to drive me, but my doctor was adamant I go via ambulance.
Once at the new hospital, I was given Lasix but still wasn’t told anything. I had to have a plethora of tests run and was constantly getting up to go to the bathroom. It was exhausting. After a couple of days, one of the doctors at the new hospital told me that I was fortunate to have come in when I did. If I had waited to go in another 12–24 hours, I would have died. My pre-eclampsia turned into eclampsia, and my lungs had filled with fluid. Until then, I had no idea how serious the situation was. No one said anything to me or let on that it was an emergency. When I asked my OB why he didn’t tell me, he said it was because he didn’t want to stress me out. 11 years later, I still panic a little when I have symptoms of indigestion.”
—Sterling R.
10.“I got up one morning, and my left hand was swollen. I couldn’t find an insect bite, but I thought maybe a spider bit me in my sleep. This was in the early ’90s, before the internet was a resource for research. I spent the day with family and attended a funeral. The next morning, the swelling went up to my elbow. Still thinking about an insect bite, I took some Benadryl and carried on. The next morning, my entire arm was swollen, and I went to a walk-in clinic…”
11.“Back in 2004, I was working long hours and not eating much, so it didn’t seem too unusual that I was losing weight and felt tired all the time. But then, one day, I simply bumped a door knob when entering a room and woke up the next morning with a bruise the size of Texas on my hip. It stretched from my ribcage to below my waist. My wife insisted I get it checked out, so I visited our local urgent care center…”
“The physician there told me my blood had just thinned out because I was taking a great deal of Excedrin lately dealing with some frequent headaches, and told me to lay off the aspirin and go home. Three days later, I was still feeling fragile and tired, so I called my doctor and went in to see him.
He remarked that I had lost a LOT of weight. I weighed about 225 pounds when I saw him last, but I was down to 145 pounds. He immediately sent me for some blood tests. After another week of pure lethargy, he called me back. My white blood cell count should have been around 6,000 for a healthy person, but mine was over 200,000. This indicated something severe like cancer or AIDS, so naturally, I was freaked out. Another round of tests showed I had leukemia — CML, to be specific. But it had not entered the blast phase yet. I had caught it early enough to begin treatment.
I was referred to an oncologist who put me on a battery of drugs, including a new chemo that you take daily in pill form instead of the typical infusion. I got really sick at first because the meds were cleaning out my system, but within six weeks or so, I started putting some weight back on and regained much of my energy. Two years later, there was no sign of leukemia in my blood, and now, 18 years later, I am still taking the medication, but I am also still in remission and healthier than ever. I’m alive today because I got a bruise, and my wife made me do something about it. Moral of the story: Don’t overlook the small things. They are usually indicating something more extensive you haven’t discovered yet.”
—Kenneth B.
12.“When I lived in Canada, I was prescribed the antibiotic doxycycline for an infection. I took it and went to bed. When I woke up, my hands hurt (like so much I literally could not turn a doorknob or hold a spoon), and I had this bizarre bullseye-shaped rash on both elbows. I went to the ER. The triage nurse took one look at me and, before we finished the intake paperwork, hustled me to the back to see a doctor…”
13.“In October 2019, I was out shopping in the morning, and I had to use the restroom while out. When I wiped, there was blood on the toilet paper (light pink, it was diluted), and I knew something wasn’t right. I figured it might be a UTI or kidney stone, as I get those both frequently, but I didn’t worry too much. Having stage four kidney disease, I sometimes get blood in my urine as well, so I swept it under the rug…”
“…Later that evening, I started feeling ill and went to the bathroom in my home. This is where things get fuzzy. Somehow or another, I ended up sitting on the floor and could NOT find my way out of the bathroom. It was one door, a tiny room- not rocket science. I was in a state of total confusion.
Long story short, I was in there for hours, and my roommate, who was a former EMT and firefighter, found me. He insisted on calling an ambulance, but I fought him on it. I’m glad he didn’t listen to me. I had about an hour to live. When the medics came, my blood sugar was 14.
At the hospital, they diagnosed me with respiratory failure, kidney failure, double pneumonia, sepsis, a C. Diff infection, and cholecystitis (my gallbladder was infected). I remember being in the ER, surrounded by doctors, nurses, and medical students…everyone was staring at me with a look of dread as if I was going to die. All I could keep thinking was how I could not breathe (I kept trying to sit up to get air, but they wouldn’t let me) and that this is what death is like. I’m dying.
They put me out and intubated me, gave me an IO (this is where they drill a hole in your leg in a life-threatening emergency to administer antibiotics), and put me in the ICU. I was in a coma for eight days; they did not expect me to live. Ha! I showed them! I’m sure they were glad I did, too. When I got my tube out and began to sit up in bed, nurses would come by my room and express their surprise to me about how I was doing so well. I was in the hospital for two weeks, but it took me over a year to fully recover. I am one lucky person.”
—Kimberly M.
14.“I was having rather extreme bowel issues. I could not evacuate my bowel for days on end, and when it did, it practically exploded. I knew the pain was extreme, but it was still just constipation, right? I was beginning to suspect a blockage with some of the other types of (lower) abdominal pain. I had a specialist who was looking at the problem and had even had MRI and CAT scans, though the results of those had not come back to me yet. One night, it became truly unbearable, and as humiliated as I was to take this issue to the ER, I decided I would…”
15.“About ten years ago, we came home from a weekend at the beach, and I started to feel a bit ill… like maybe I was coming down with the flu. I felt awful but thought, ‘Okay, I have the flu. I’ll get better in a couple of days.’ My wife was alarmed and wanted to take me to the E.R., but I kept saying, ‘No, I’ll get better in a couple of days.’ Then, one afternoon, I started hallucinating. In my practical mind, I knew we did not have a blue pickup truck in the living room, but when I told her about it, she said, ‘Okay, that’s it. We’re going to the E.R. right now!…'”
Do you have a similar story of a time you went to the doctor because of a gut instinct, or “just to be safe,” and it ended up possibly saving your life? Tell us in the comments or in this anonymous form.